Friend's family matter
Jul. 27th, 2025 10:20 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
My best friend K has moved to Vancouver 2 years ago for her husband's job. Before moving to Canada she has lived in Yokohama too, we have often enjoyed eating out together, the easy chatting, one day outing or overnight trips together, sometimes with her husband. I have missed her company, and whenever she comes back to Japan we make as many opportunities to meet as we can. This year, K has been to Japan at the middle of this month for some medical checkup etc, and was going to stay for about I month. We have planned an overnight trip at the beginning of Aug and I booked a nice, small lodging. Also I have expected eating out with her often during her stay in Japan.
Though, just before her coming back to Japan, her father has become unwell and was taken to the hospital. He is 97 or 98 I think, so this is quite serious situation. For about 10 days K's father has gone in and out of the hospital, his condition gets better and gets worse day by day. Nobody knows how his condition would change.
In such situation of course K cannot enjoy outing for fun, nor overnight trip. I had to cancel the hotel and paid the cancellation fee. I was disappointed of course, but no other choice in such case. The is no one's fault.
I still have not met her yet, no idea when I can. I noticed how I have been looking forward to K's visit, and that I have no other friends with whom I can enjoy casual eating out or an overnight trip etc. I have many good friends but most of them live far away, usually I can't meet them easily. I think about my own poverty of friendship :(
Though, just before her coming back to Japan, her father has become unwell and was taken to the hospital. He is 97 or 98 I think, so this is quite serious situation. For about 10 days K's father has gone in and out of the hospital, his condition gets better and gets worse day by day. Nobody knows how his condition would change.
In such situation of course K cannot enjoy outing for fun, nor overnight trip. I had to cancel the hotel and paid the cancellation fee. I was disappointed of course, but no other choice in such case. The is no one's fault.
I still have not met her yet, no idea when I can. I noticed how I have been looking forward to K's visit, and that I have no other friends with whom I can enjoy casual eating out or an overnight trip etc. I have many good friends but most of them live far away, usually I can't meet them easily. I think about my own poverty of friendship :(